You have been involved in a relationship and all of sudden your boyfriend “wants more space”, you are feeling hurt and confused. I am going to give you some insights that might help bring your ex boyfriend back.
When someone says they want more space, it is often because they are confused on what they want and … you are one of the reasons for that.
It is possible he is more interested in someone else at this moment but does not have the courage to tell you that. If this is the case, trust me, you do not want to be with this person anyway. They will never be happy.
If you do really want him back, you will need to give him reasons that would want him to get back with you. In every breakup, both sides are always looking for reasons to get back together and reasons to stay apart. You need to provide the reasons for getting back together.
How do you do this? Simple. Be the person you need to be to get your ex boyfriend back.
Who is that? Who were you when you first started dating? I am sure they were happy times. How did you act? What was attitude toward the each other? Were you strong or weak emotionally? Did you try to impress the other? Were you confident? Were you desperate? Were you needy or clingy? Take some time to really analyze these questions and more. It will reveal that something has changed.
When you figure out some of the changes, all you need to do is BE that the person your ex boyfriend was head of heals for before. Be independent, strong, confident, funny, caring, etc.
Secondly, you attitude is you are going to be this person regardless of whether your ex boyfriend comes back to you or not. Your attitude is it is his loss and you are moving on. Life is too short to sit around waiting to see if your boyfriend wants you back.
It is critical that your ex gets the message that you are ok with the breakup and are moving on. This is when your ex will start to realize what he is missing and don’t be surprised if he comes back just by using this simple technique alone.
Your ex is looking for reasons to get back together and reasons to stay apart. Give him strong reasons before it is too late.